Enforcing and Modifying Long Distance Colorado Parenting Plans

Enforcing & Modifying Long-Distance Parenting Plans in Colorado

Maintaining a long-distance parenting plan can be challenging—especially when parents live in different states or juggle busy schedules. This section outlines how Colorado law supports parents in enforcing an existing plan and modifying it if significant changes arise, ensuring the child’s best interests remain the central focus.


Why This Page Exists

  • Enforcement Mechanisms: Explains how Colorado courts handle compliance issues for long-distance arrangements.
  • Modification Pathways: Outlines the steps for adjusting a plan if schedules, finances, or a child’s developmental needs evolve over time.


  • Which Court Has Authority: In Colorado, the court that initially issued the parenting plan typically retains jurisdiction unless the child and both parents have clearly moved elsewhere. Check the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (UCCJEA), C.R.S. § 14-13-100 et seq., for guidance on multi-state cases.
  • Interstate Considerations: If one parent now lives in a different state, you may need to register or domesticate your Colorado order there for enforcement or modification. Confirm procedures with both state courts to avoid jurisdictional conflicts.


  • Filing a Motion for Contempt or Enforcement: In Colorado, you can submit a Motion to Enforce Parenting Time (JDF 1422) if the other parent consistently violates the agreed schedule. The court may order make-up parenting time or impose additional measures.
  • Alternative Dispute Resolution: Before heading to court, some Colorado judicial districts require mediation or suggest working with a Parenting Coordinator to address conflicts. This can save time and help parents refine their long-distance schedule without escalating to a formal hearing.


  • Substantial Change in Circumstances: Courts generally won’t alter a plan unless there’s a significant reason—like a parent’s new work schedule, the child’s changing school needs, or one parent’s relocation.
  • Notice & Deadlines: Under Colorado law, you must notify the other parent and the court of your intent to modify the plan. Depending on local rules, a waiting period may apply—confirm with the county clerk or district court where your order was issued.


  • Required Forms & Fees: Submit a Verified Motion to Modify Parenting Time or Decision-Making (JDF 1406) to the Colorado court with jurisdiction over your case. Filing fees vary by county.
  • Scheduling a Hearing: Once filed, you’ll receive a court date. If you believe the child’s welfare is at immediate risk, you may request an expedited hearing. The judge will assess whether the alleged urgency justifies moving up the process.


  • Non-Compliance Penalties: If a parent repeatedly ignores the court-approved schedule, judges can order make-up visits, impose fines, or require the non-compliant parent to pay attorney’s fees.
  • Revising the Plan: A judge can adjust logistical details—like exchange locations, travel cost allocations, or virtual visitation protocols—to better suit the child’s evolving needs and minimize parental conflict.


  • Co-Parenting Apps & Calendars: Tools such as OurFamilyWizard or TalkingParents provide shared calendars and messaging logs, reducing misunderstandings and offering a record of all communication.
  • Family Counseling & Support: If conflict persists, Colorado has Family Resource Centers and counseling programs that specialize in helping parents manage long-distance arrangements peacefully.

Why It Matters

Distance can amplify co-parenting hurdles, from managing travel expenses to balancing the child’s educational and social life. By establishing clear rules for enforcement and a straightforward path to modification, parents can adapt their plan responsibly and minimize stress for both the child and themselves.


Cross-References

  • State-Specific Statutes & Regulations (Section 1): Look up code sections detailing modifications and contempt proceedings (e.g., C.R.S. § 14-10-129).
  • Court Process & Important Case Law (Section 2): See how Colorado courts have handled enforcement or modification requests in past rulings.
  • Evidentiary Tools & Resources (Section 5): Gather travel cost estimates, childcare options, or communication logs to substantiate why changes are needed—or to prove non-compliance.

Tips for Parents & Professionals

  1. Communicate Early: If your job changes or your child’s needs shift, let the other parent know as soon as possible. Cooperation can prevent disputes.
  2. Keep Records: Document each visit, missed exchange, or additional expenses. This paper trail is critical if you need the court’s help enforcing or revising your plan.
  3. Seek Legal Advice: For multi-state parenting arrangements, or if you anticipate complex jurisdictional issues, consult a Colorado family law attorney. They can clarify interstate compacts and the UCCJEA to avoid legal pitfalls.

By staying informed about Colorado’s enforcement and modification procedures for long-distance parenting plans—and by cooperating with the other parent—families can navigate these complexities while prioritizing the child’s well-being and continuity of care.